A MUST READ : 4 Tips to Dating the New catch You got from Social Media!!

      

 In the world we are living in today, it is tough for singles to find time to go out and meet new people. This reduces their chances for romance and proper dating. Thus, many singles turn to cyber dating as an option or an avenue to meet other singles. There are many who have found love through this avenue, while others have experienced hell on earth due to these same avenues. Meeting someone online and then going ahead to take the relationship to a personal level is the goal, but there are tips that should be taken into account before plunging into the lake of dating. 

Here are the four key tips that you should put into considerations hen you ought to date a new catch you got from any social media platform;

1.Treat them like strangers
Despite the fact that you have chatted online, exchanged pictures and other niceties, the fact remains that you don’t know each other. Knowing the basic information about the other person is great, but not sufficient to prove that you know them. Treat your date like a stranger because that is what they are, even if you feel otherwise. You have to pretend that you have just met the person when you go out for the first time and take all precautions possible.

2.Meet in public places
When you decide to meet for the first time after blossoming of an online relationship, it can be a very and attractive venture. To ensure that the bliss remain the same, ensure that the first date happens in a very public place. Meet the person there and do not agree to be picked up. This may give away your address and leaves you without your own transportation to get away if your date do not meet your expectations. 




3.No personal information
Do not provide too much personal information online. Cyber dates sometimes turn out to be cyber stalkers. They may not even look like the person they claim to be in their profile picture. By giving out too much of your information such as your home address, your email address or telling them where you work is a bad idea. The details that are very personal such as these have to be kept private until you have been out several times and you have got a good feeling towards your date.

4.Inform friends
When going out on a first date, tell your friends or somebody close to you where you are going. Tell them that you are going out with somebody who you met online. This should be the norm on several occasions until the date has gained your confidence and earned your trust. They should be able to the person on the website where you met.

MUST READ!!!: IS YOUR PARTNER CHEATING ON YOU?

Cheating means breaking rules you have agreed on in a committed relationship. Usually cheating refers to sexual infidelity or adultery. If you are making out or having sex with someone outside of your committed relationship, it means you’re cheating on your partner.

                                   

 

Cheating doesn’t always have to be sexual. Sometimes cheating is on an emotional level. When someone shares intimate thoughts with a person who’s not his or her partner, it’s called emotional cheating.

If you know your partner well and have had a close, long term relationship, you can often tell when something’s not right. You might notice that they’ve begun spending a lot more time at work, they have less time for you and your family, start taking calls in private and seem less committed to doing things with you. They have begun lying, paying attention to their looks, appear confused and detached. When you ask them if there’s something wrong, they shrug off your question.

Finding out that your partner’s been cheating on you can be a traumatic experience. It could breach all trust between the two of you and could even lead to a break-up, separation or divorce. You might spend days, weeks and months wondering what you did to be at the receiving end of this behaviour. Give yourself the benefit of doubt and take some time to calm down and think with your head over your shoulders.

Whether you want to continue the relationship depends on a number of factors. Is your partner willing to go on? If they are, what will it take for them to regain your trust? Will your trust in them ever be restored? What are the ways to rebuild your relationship? You may decide what the right path for you is after you’ve given these questions enough thought.

                           
There are lots of different reasons why people cheat. They might be unhappy in their relationship or unsatisfied with the sex. But some studies claim that wanting to cheat can also have genetic reasons. People with a certain ‘cheating gene’ variant are more likely to have casual sex and one-night stands – and to cheat on their partners.


SOURCE: lovematters

A Must Read : 4 Things that Makes Sex Good.

During the Conjugal moments, many people fail to know the things that will make his/her partner happy during the whole process. If you’re in love with someone, there’s a good chance you’ll like them touching you. But just because you’re in love with someone doesn’t necessarily mean you want to have sex with them.
How you kiss your partner and the the sex style that you use may make sex good or bad.

                          
        

Here are 4 simple things that makes sex interesting to both partners:

• Pick the right place to make love. If you know you could be disturbed, you probably won’t enjoy your partner’s lovemaking as much.
• Make sure you have safe sex, so you don’t need to worry about catching a sexually transmitted disease or getting pregnant.
• Try different things out, so you discover what you both like.
• Do you feel like making love? If you’re not feeling well, perhaps with a headache or a cold, you probably won’t feel like making love in the way you do when you feel healthy.

Source: LoveMatters

A MUST READ: 8 Ways of Coping up with a Break-Up!!!

                                             

Healing from the wounds of a broken relationship is difficult. If you’ve been in a long term relationship or been living with your partner, it could mean a change in your lifestyle. You may feel differently depending on whether you’ve been ‘dumped’ or you did the dumping. People who have been through both say that being dumped is much worse – not surprisingly. It’s a blow to your self-esteem. In either case though, it’s not easy. 

                             

Here are some tips on how you can cope with your break-up:

• Think but don’t obsess over what went wrong. It’s great to take notes from your past. Don’t fight your feelings. Let them ooze out. It can be hard to stop thinking about it, but try to think about other things as much as you can. Remember that your end goal is to move on.

• Meet with friends and share your feelings. There’s no better cure to a broken heart than sharing your feelings with good friends. You can meet for an evening beer or wine and pour your heart out.

• Get rid of negative emotions. A while after you’ve broken up, if you still feel angry with your ex, tell yourself it’s time to let go because it’s in the past now. Get rid of things that remind you of your partner – things like the gifts they gave or cards they made. It’s sad but it can help you move on. 

                                                                    

• Care for yourself. Eat well, sleep well and exercise. Do things that make you feel better – like taking a walk in the park or getting together with your family. When you’re hurting, you need to do things that will minimise the pain. A little bit of tender loving care will go a long way in the process of healing.

• Get a new hobby. Try learning how to play the piano or how to make Thai food. Go get yourself a new engagement to fill in spare time. Keeping your mind and body busy is an essential ingredient of healing. You might also meet new people with similar interests when you join a group or club.

• Be positive. It might sound unbelievable, but it is perfectly possible that you’ll find someone else who’d love you again.

• Watch out for signs of depression. If you think you’re falling into depression, let someone know. Get help. Contact helplines or counsellors. Below is a list that will help you.

• Don’t turn to drink or drugs. Stay away from alcohol and other un-prescribed drugs. They’ll do you more harm than help you heal.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   

Dj Creme De La Creme replaces Bro Ocholla on TWITTER with a HOT SEX TAPE. (VIDEO)

                         



George Njuguna popularly known as Dj Creme De La Creme took the #KOT  Personality of the Week which was last occupied by Bro Ocholla  after a sex tape in which he is being "nursed" by   23 year old lady hit the top trends.
According to blogger Robert Alai, DJ Creme acted the tape last year and may have leaked it himself.
Kenyans on Twitter continue to make juice out of the scandal which may dent Creme’s image in this ‘corporate image'.


WATCH THE VIDEO HERE

Some of the top twits that were taking the airwaves on twitter are;

Faplo Escobar @Wafunya

Unakuwaje DJ na unakula female ako na such flaccid breasts? DJ Creme, you have failed the city.

Robert ALAI @RobertAlai

DJ Creme recorded that sex tape one year ago and gave it out. Nothing like leaked. People market themselves in weird manners.

Giddy® @Korsen17 

Mollis and Bro Ocholla when they heard about the new sheriff in town, DJ Creme  

Ben Kipronoh @AmbassadorBomet

TeamMafisi wish to inform the public that Dj Creme has never been and will never be our member. that was underperformance.

Adam Maina @AdamMaina_

Dj Creme didn't even let Bro Ocholla's career prosper.

 

 

Ladies, Read The 5 Reasons Why Men Fall Asleep After S3X!!!!

Why do men sleep after sex? This is a question most women need answers to. Is it abnormal to fall asleep after sex or is the man just being selfish when he sleeps after sex?
Below are 5 reasons why men sleep after sex


                               
1. SLEEP-INDUCING CHEMICALS RELEASED DURING SEX: after sex, a man’s brain becomes flooded with sleep-inducing chemicals such as oxytocin, serotonin and prolactin causing men to sleep after sex.
2. BLOOD RUSH: the blood rush that occurs after your man ‘comes’ depletes the muscles of energy-producing glycogen. It is well known that men have higher muscle density than women making them more likely to sleep after sex.
3. A MAN’S CEREBRAL CORTEX SHUTS DOWN AFTER SEX: according to a research, a man’s cerebral cortex which is the ‘thinking’ area, shuts down almost immediately after sex while the cingulate cortex and amygdale make the rest of the brain to deactivate from sexual desire.
                                
4. LOCATION OF SEX: the location the sex occurs plays a role too. When you have sex in the bedroom where you are naturally comfortable, it’s so easy for the man to fall asleep after sex compared to when you do it in your car or somewhere else under duress, that is not so comfortable.
5. TIME OF SEX: time of sex is another reason why men sleep after sex. When sex occurs in the night especially when the human body is already tired, the man sleeps after sex because it occurred at a time when people sleep naturally and sex by nature is very relaxing.

"My Father is hot in bed and I have been in conjugal affair with him",Confesses Kenyan Lady (Audio Evidence)

Should this be the end time of world? According to the African traditions, a girl child should respect her parents. But to Stellah this means nothing to her as she is in lovely affair with her biological father.

An audio of a Kenyan lady confessing to sleeping with her biological father is making rounds on social media and trust me, it is disturbing.

A man called a local radio station to help him dump his girlfriend after he found out that she has been in a conjugal affair with her "Dad". The lady, Stellah, was called by the station, and she admitted to having a lovely affair with her father.

The girl confesses that her Father is handsome, has everything that she need and he is  "hot" in bed than her boyfriend.


Listen to the audio below as Rose confesses to what she has been doing behind her husband’s back.

VIDEO : THIS IS MORE OF SODOM AND GOMORA AS A GYNAECOLOGIST IS ALLEGED OF RAPING HIS PATIENTS!!!!!

 


For many women, a visit to a male gynaecologist is often an awkward but necessary moment that forces them to bear it all to a stranger.
Many hope the sessions could end the soonest possible and with minimum physical intrusion into their womanhood.
But for women visiting a private clinic in Nairobi’s Githurai and Zimmerman estates, they like any other profession, the  perverts the gynaecologist is that special doctor to whom you literally bear the most private details about your womanhood.

The choice of a gynaecologist is therefore a delicate balance between health and privacy concerns.Thursday the 4^th of September, 2015 would have us frantically knocking on the doors of Dr Mugo wa Wairimu’s clinic for the better part of the day

We were seeking answers to allegations that he, in his capacity as a gynaecologist, has been sedating and raping his clients. 

 It follows the release of a disturbing video footage that shows Dr Mugo Wairimu during a session with one of his clients, going against all medical doctrine to take advantage of a woman who is visibly unconscious.

CLICK HERE TO WATCH THE VIDEO  

Source: CITIZEN TV

MEN: THESE ARE THE 10 WAYS TO MAKE HER LOVE YOU MORE!

Are you in love and you are not sure if she loves you back? Here are the ways to make her love you;

1) Confidence

Girls love guys who are confident but not docky. Know what you are good at. Don’t brag about it or show off, but put these things into your routine and don’t be afraid to let them shine every once in a while.

2) Compliment Her A lot of women put a lot of effort into looking nice for their date. Offer a flattering remark on her time well spent and she will be delighted that you noticed.

3)Maintain Cleanness Whether you like it or not its disgusting when you leave your room dirty and each time she corrects you but you keep repeating it. You may not know it, but every time she picks up your wet towel or cleans beard clippings from the sink, the romance wears off.

3) Surprise Catch her unaware with that fetching coat she has been eyeing, a message on her work voicemail or a note in her bag lunch to keep her guessing and excited.After all women love mysterious guys.

4)Don’t flirt with other girls too much  A girl might really like you but if she sees you dancing or talking with another girl, that could be a dealbreaker. Make sure she knows you’re interested in only her.

5) Give her reasons to be reminded of you  Sing or hum songs, talk about movies, share favorite places. Anything that, when she hears/sees it again, will make her think of you.

6) Girls have no idea what they want. Be yourself and be a gentlemen. Let her do what she wants and act like you care about her.

7) Be Financially Stable Women don’t care how you get your cash but you must be able to provide for her.

8 Be Humorous This gives the girl a reason to relax. A person is more responsive and receptive when relaxed. This is similar to being witty, but with higher importance. It helps you connect with her emotionally/intellectually. She should enjoy your company and not be bored.

9) Consult her Ask her advice on something important to you, even if you don’t really need it. It will show her you value her opinion and that she’s part of your plans.

10) Be a family man Introduce her to your brother, sister, nephew, grandma – it shows you care about family, without subjecting her to the terror of a parental encounter. She sees how you treat them as an indicator of how she’ll be treated.
11)Jealousy
Show A bit Of jealousness when she flirts with other guys that will show you love and care.

A MUST READ: 10 FEATURES OF A WIFE MATERIAL!!

Is the girl you are dating a wife material?

Dear gentlemen, is the girl you have been dating a wife material? Get to know it now;
1) She is a Great Cook
. There’s a lot of truth behind that whole “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” line.
2)Sense Of Humour
Whether she’s cracking jokes or laughing it up at yours, she definitely knows that, as Oscar Wilde put it, “Life is too important to be taken seriously.”
3)She has Goals
In fact who is that gentlemen who wants to settle with girl who has no goals in life really??
4)Great S3x
S3x isn’t everything in a relationship. But you’re kidding yourself if it’s not important.What will you do if you find that she isn’t great in bed .
5)She is Trust Worthy
In fact, she should inspire trustworthiness within you. If you don’t trust her, you’re probably making her as bitter as you’re making yourself. Not worth it. If you can’t trust her, maybe you’re not ready to date her or maybe you need to work on confidence issues within yourself. If there’s good reason not to trust her, don’t even go there. Just like any cheater, it’s bound to happen again.
6) She’s responsible
Does she remember appointments and meetings? Does she flake all of the time? She should already do a good job of managing her own life. If she’s got loads of debt and doesn’t work, you’re going to be taking all of that on. Ultimately, she will have some part in your financial well-being, and guess what? Finances remain one of the leading causes of divorce.
7)She Gets Along With Your Family
Family is something very important and she aint getting along with them well then you are doomed dear gentleman
8.) She’s attractive
She should be beautiful like the way you saw her at first even after 10 years .
She should be beautiful down to her soul because that kind of beauty lasts forever.
9) She Should love you Unconditionally
She should be able to love you either in worse times or better days.
10)She Should be smart
Here am talking about money and other related issues.Does she handled errands in an orderly manner

A MUST READ: 10 THINGS THAT YOU MISS FOR NOT HAVING SEX.

A lot of people might have told you that you miss a lot for not having "sex", the answer is capital YES! These are the things that you miss  and would continue missing them:
1. You miss contracting HIV/AIDS
2. You miss unwanted
pregnancy.
3. You miss being unwanted
husband/wife
4. You miss having sexually
transmitted disease.
5. You miss having unwanted
child.

6. You miss being a school
dropout.
7. You miss having a broken
home.
8. You miss making God and
your parents sad.
9. You miss barrenness due to
abortions.
10. You miss having a destroyed
career prospects and lastly, you miss going to hell.

Have you seen that you really miss a lot by not having sex?. My fellow youths, your life worth more than five minutes enjoyment that can destroy your life forever. Preserve your body not just for your future husband or wife but for Almighty God.

10 FEATURES OF A WIFE MATERIAL!!

Is the girl you are dating a wife material?

Dear gentlemen, is the girl you have been dating a wife material? Get to know it now;
1) She is a Great Cook
. There’s a lot of truth behind that whole “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” line.
2)Sense Of Humour
Whether she’s cracking jokes or laughing it up at yours, she definitely knows that, as Oscar Wilde put it, “Life is too important to be taken seriously.”
3)She has Goals
In fact who is that gentlemen who wants to settle with girl who has no goals in life really??
4)Great S3x
S3x isn’t everything in a relationship. But you’re kidding yourself if it’s not important.What will you do if you find that she isn’t great in bed .
5)She is Trust Worthy
In fact, she should inspire trustworthiness within you. If you don’t trust her, you’re probably making her as bitter as you’re making yourself. Not worth it. If you can’t trust her, maybe you’re not ready to date her or maybe you need to work on confidence issues within yourself. If there’s good reason not to trust her, don’t even go there. Just like any cheater, it’s bound to happen again.
6) She’s responsible
Does she remember appointments and meetings? Does she flake all of the time? She should already do a good job of managing her own life. If she’s got loads of debt and doesn’t work, you’re going to be taking all of that on. Ultimately, she will have some part in your financial well-being, and guess what? Finances remain one of the leading causes of divorce.

7)She Gets Along With Your Family
Family is something very important and she aint getting along with them well then you are doomed dear gentleman
8.) She’s attractive
She should be beautiful like the way you saw her at first even after 10 years .
She should be beautiful down to her soul because that kind of beauty lasts forever.
9) She Should love you Unconditionally
She should be able to love you either in worse times or better days.
10)She Should be smart
Here am talking about money and other related issues.Does she handled errands in an orderly manner

Ladies, these are the signs to prove if that man is faithful to you.

There are many men out there who absolutely adore their partners and if you want to know if you are in the lucky percentage then look out for the following signs.

1. He only has eyes for you.
Have you ever gone out with your man and end up feeling embarrassed? There you are in the restaurant enjoying a meal and instead of tuning in to what you are saying his eyes are all over the place, sometimes lingering a little too long for your comfort. But if you end up with a sweetie who hangs on to your words like a lifeline, only has eyes for you and what’s more can hardly tear his eyes off you to talk to the waiter, then honey you have hit the jackpot in romance big time.
2. His friends know all about you.
We are not talking about the way men can brag about the loves in their lives no, nor brag about how curvaceous and hot their women are. No, we are talking about the fact his friends KNOW that he is head over heels and everyone better watch their tongues when they are talking about her. No disrespect will be tolerated. This is a serious man when it comes to commitment and being true.
3. He’s interested in your interests.
When a man is really into you and has no interest in anyone else then he’ll want to know everything about you and that means a better understanding of your likes and dislikes.
4. He’s open about his phone.
“Honey will you get the phone for me please!” he shouts from wherever he is as his cellphone rings. That’s a confident man who isn’t afraid you might answer to the wrong person on the line. What’s more, he leaves his phone lying around the place without a care in the world if you should get curious about text messages.
5. He does stuff for you.
If he does things like your laundry when you’re having a down day, or doesn’t mind going to the pharmacy to get your essentials, he’s a keeper who has nothing on his mind but you.
6. He’s always hot for you.
The minute you are near him, he is all hot and ready for you! You still have the ability to turn him on and keep him that way. Honey, you can bet your bottom dollar that more than likely he is not sampling anything elsewhere.
7. You’ve got a key to his place.
Men are protective of their domain. Face it, just because you are going steady and sometimes you sleep over, doesn’t mean he is going to give you unlimited access to his kingdom. If he has restless eyes, then you can count on the fact that he won’t be sharing his keys anytime soon as he doesn’t want any unexpected visits. If he cuts a key for you before you even ask, keep that man!
8. He doesn’t play mind games with you
If he says he will drop in to see you, he does. When he makes plans with you for the weekend, he sticks to them. He doesn’t torment you by saying one thing and doing something else. He’s not cold one instant and warm and affectionate the other. If his ex-girlfriend calls him, he tells you about it for the sake of honesty and not in a way that makes you uncomfortable. When a man plays mind games, it’s typically because he doesn’t really care, or because the relationship is casual for him. If your man makes a special effort to be honest and open, that’s a sign of his commitment to the relationship.
9. He’s always punctual
If he’s always punctual, he’s definitely into you. When a man is serious about his girlfriend, he will ensure that she doesn’t have to wait for an hour at the bus stop. He says he will pick you up for dinner and 8 p.m. and calls around 7.55 p.m. to tell you he’s stuck in traffic and will be 15 minutes late, he’s respectful of your feelings. He won’t ever have you hanging around the park for half an hour before he shows up. Most girls constantly find themselves waiting for their boyfriend’s phone call, or for him to pick them up. If you don’t find yourself in that position, you’ve got yourself a winner.